Thursday, August 27, 2009

I'm an adult...holy crap how did that happen?!

So, I'm preparing for a small dinner party tonight and it hit me while I was making a tiramisu that I have now totally and completely entered into adulthood...I know it didn't just happen overnight, but realizing it HAS happened has been a slow process.

Here are some of the signs that you have finally reached adulthood (in case you weren't sure yourself):
  • You've found yourself making a tiramisu or any other kind of fru-fru dessert. No, rice-krispie treats do not count (though they are equally delicious).
  • You look at your bank account and there is actually enough money to pay all your bills.
  • You can't remember the last time you bounced a check.
  • You have 'effin dinner parties!
  • You use matching china at those dinner parties.
  • You go to the dentist/gyno/eye doctor on a regular basis.
  • You start saying things like,"Those darn kids are making too much racket."
  • You finally appreciate what your parents had to go through to raise you not to be a serial killer or stripper.
  • You start thinking about having kids, like, SERIOUSLY thinking about it. (I'm not sure all men go through this step.)
  • You drive more cautiously. When I say cautiously, I mean no more than 5 miles over the speed limit, signal your turns, don't tailgate, etc. (My husband would say I have not achieved this bullet yet.)
  • You own every kitchen gadget known to man.
  • You go to bed by 11 pm and wake up by 7 am (sometimes on the weekends, too!).
  • You read for pleasure. (Currently reading Harry Potter #7 for the third time.)
  • You are gainfully employed.
  • You use words like "utilize" and "garner."
  • Your mother actually goes out on a limb and tells you you're finally acting like an adult.

Umm, I'm sure there are more and will be more as I keep getting more "adult-like." Please comment and share your "signs that you've reached adulthood!"

Oh, and in case you feel like crossing off the "making a tiramisu" bullet off your adulthood list, here is the recipe!

Tiramisu
From "The Gourmet Cookbook"
Serves 6

3 large eggs, separated
3/4 cup sugar
1 (8 ounce) container (scant 1 cup) of marscapone
Pinch of salt
1/2 cup of very cold heavy cream
2 cups brewed espresso or very strong coffee, cooled to room temperature
2 tablespoons sweet Marsala wine
18 savoiardi (crisp Italian ladyfingers)
1/4 cup good bittersweet chocolate shavings (not unsweetened; shavings made with a vegetable peeler) or 2 tablespoons unsweetened cocoa powder

Beat together yolks and 1/2 cup sugar in a large bowl with an electric mixer at medium speed until thick and pale, about 2 minutes. Beat in marscapone until just combined.

Beat whites and salt in another bowl with cleaned beaters until whites hold soft peaks. Add remaining 1/4 cup sugar a little at a time, beating, then continue to beat until whites just hold stiff peaks.

Beat cream in another bowl with cleaned beaters until it just holds soft peaks. Gently but thoroughly fold cream into marscapone mixture, then fold in whites.

Stir together espresso and Marsala in a shallow bowl. Dip 1 ladyfinger in the espresso mixture, soaking it for about 4 seconds on each side, and transfer to an 8-inch square baking dish (1 quart capacity). Repeat with 8 more ladyfingers, trimming them as needed to fit snugly in bottom of dish. Spread half of marscapone mixture evenly over ladyfingers. Make another layer in the same manner with remaining ladyfingers and marscapone mixture. Refrigerate tiramisu, covered, for at least 6 hours.

Just before serving, sprinkle with chocolate.

One note, I needed many more ladyfingers to cover the bottom of my dish, so buy extra just in case. Also, I ended up brewing strong coffee instead of espresso, which is fine. Also, make sure you buy SWEET Marsala wine, not the stuff you find for cooking. Lastly, any kind of ladyfingers will do, but we really liked the flavor of the Italian ladyfingers or savoiardi. They are bigger and soak up the coffee or espresso better than others you might find.

YUM!

Monday, August 24, 2009

The kiddies have taken over

Chapel Hill is alive again and positively throbbing with energy from the thousands of college students and their families who have made their way to campus. School doesn't actually start until Wednesday, so these kids have two whole days of mischief ahead of them.

I honestly MISS being in college and am a little jealous of these kids. Their worlds are so wide open and full of potential and possibilities. Okay, in all fairness, my world is still wide-open and full of possibilities, but there is something to that feeling of utter naivete and unabashed optimism that greets you with every new school year.

Heck, I even miss the school work. Um, is it weird to admit that I MISS being graded? I MISS sitting in class and having the knowledge of my professors wash over me (some were more successful at communicating that knowledge than others). I miss that feeling of being part of a system larger than myself. Of being affiliated with a university...MY university.

My three and a half years in college were like a dream. I dated; I went to school; I went to parties; I had sisters; I went to football games; I ate...A LOT. I never really had to think about the outside world. That is, of course, with the very big exception of 9/11, which happened during my sophomore year.

I am in the real world now, but still living on a college campus. It's a very surreal feeling. It's like straddling two worlds. On the one hand, I get to experience the energy associated with a college campus (youth, college sports, under-age shenanigans, etc.) and on the other, I'm married, contemplating having kids in the near future, looking for a job, paying bills, making ends meet...you get the picture.

Sometimes, I really do just have to stop and thank my lucky, quirky, unpredictable stars for my life.

Oh yeah, GO SEMINOLES!!

Friday, August 21, 2009

Baby, it's hot outside

Yes, boys and girls, we are in the dead of summer and it is proving to be a H-O-T one. I honestly don't mind the heat. I'm one of the few people who prefer warm weather to cold.

This hot weather actually reminds me of the extreme heat and humidity we experienced during our wedding festivities over two years ago (Oh my god. Has been TWO years already?!)

Let me set the scene: July 2007. British Virgin Islands. Tortola, to be exact. Beautiful aquamarine water with sugar white sand beaches and searing 90+ degree heat. I'm walking down the aisle, sweating after only 30 seconds outside and I see my wonderful husband-to-be absolutely DRENCHED in sweat (of course, he had to wear a khaki suit). I'm sunburned, he's sunburned. I'm an emotional wreck. My Dad is sobbing. My Mom is sobbing. The photographer had been yelling at me right before I went to walk down the aisle that if I don't hurry up the officiant will leave. So I'm pretty emotionally fragile and pissed off that I was running late and that the freakin' photographer was telling ME what to do on my own wedding day.

Despite all that, it was still one of the most profound, life changing 15 minutes of my life. Oh yeah, and the food wasn't bad either.

Luckily, and despite me wishing ill on the photographer, the pictures from our special day came out wonderfully. I've included a few here. Enjoy!




















































Wednesday, August 19, 2009

This week so far...

Well, this week has been a strange one so far. Not bad by any means, but not great. I'm still in limbo-city about whether they are offering me the job or not. It won't be until late next week that I find out. I looove working from home, but I definitely could use the money and the human interaction that this job would surely provide. So, there's that. Then our air conditioning has been acting wonky this week making the apartment feel like a wet refrigerator. NOT a good combination.

Finally, my friend Shana and I have been going to the gym a lot lately. Which is great, BUT I am getting all achy and creaky feeling in odd places. I'm only 27 for god's sake!! (Well, to be fair, I WILL be turning 28 in less than a month...crikey!).

Our goal this week is to go to every class, Monday through Friday. So, Step was Monday, Sculpt was yesterday, Yoga is today, Zumba is tomorrow and Kickboxing is Friday. I am quite possibly the least coordinated person in the entire class (with the exception of the men who join us...poor guys).

I made the Apple Raisin cake on Saturday and it turned out to be so good. The cake had the right amount of cinnamon, raisins, apples - perfect for the fall! My husband thinks I'm trying to fatten him up by baking all the time, so I sliced up the cake and gave it to his little starving college students. They loved it, or at least pretended to love it, which is fine by me.

Apple Raisin Cake:













So, it's not a bad week, it's just not a great week...yet. Tonight we're having dinner with my sorority sister which will be fun. And Saturday I have my first Junior League meeting at the "Hill House"...should be interesting!!

Monday, August 17, 2009

Being happy

I will not pretend to be an expert at what makes people happy, but I am slowly beginning to learn what makes ME happy...It's only taken 27 years to do so! Just read about this new study from UNC that basically says that they key to happiness is to focus on the small, everyday things that make you happy.

For instance, waking up in the morning and having the change to share a morning cup of coffee with my husband makes me insanely happy. Going to the gym makes me happy. The sound of my mother's voice makes me really happy (except when she's lecturing me on my shopping habit ;-). Having time to lay on the couch and read for an uninteruppeted period of time makes me happy. Snuggling up with my husband to watch tv before bed makes me happy. Being outside makes me happy...especially during the periods between winter and spring and between summer and fall when the weather is perfect.

From The Chapel Hill News
UNC study: To build resilience, don't worry, see happyPatric Lane, UNC News Services
CHAPEL HILL - People who seed their life with frequent moments of positive emotions increase their resilience against challenges, according to a new study by a UNC psychologist and colleagues. The study, "Happiness Unpacked: Positive Emotions Increase Life Satisfaction by Building Resilience," appears in the June issue of the bimonthly journal Emotion.

"This study shows that if happiness is something you want out of life, then focusing daily on the small moments and cultivating positive emotions is the way to go," said Barbara Fredrickson, Ph.D., Kenan Distinguished Professor of Psychology in UNC's College of Arts and Sciences and the principal investigator of the Positive Emotions and Psychophysiology Laboratory.

"Those small moments let positive emotions blossom, and that helps us become more open. That openness then helps us build resources that can help us rebound better from adversity and stress, ward off depression and continue to grow."

In the monthlong study, 86 participants were asked to submit daily "emotion reports," rather than answering general questions like, "Over the last few months, how much joy did you feel?"

"Getting those daily reports helped us gather more accurate recollections of feelings and allowed us to capture emotional ups and downs," said Fredrickson, a leading expert in the field of positive psychology. Building up a daily diet of positive emotions does not require banishing negative emotions, she said. The study helps show that to be happy, people do not need to adopt a "Pollyannaish" approach and deny the upsetting aspects of life.

"The levels of positive emotions that produced good benefits weren't extreme. Participants with average and stable levels of positive emotions still showed growth in resilience even when their days included negative emotions."


What little things make you happy?

Friday, August 14, 2009

What's cookin'?

Or baking I should say...I feel like baking a cake today. I meant to do it last night, but I was out of eggs...and I went over to my friend Shana's house and had waaaay too much good wine.

Anyway, I thought I would share the recipe of my latest kitchen experiment: Apple Raisin Cake, courtesy of The Gourmet Cookbook (2004).

Apple Raisin Cake

Ingredients
3 cups all purpose flour
1 teaspoon baking soda
1/2 teaspoon salt
1 1/2 cups vegetable oil
3 large eggs
1 1/2 cups granulated sugar
1/2 cup packed light brown sugar
1 tablespoon ground cinnamon
1/2 teaspoon freshly grated nutmeg
1 tablespoon dark rum
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
3 Golden Delicious apples (peeled, cored, and cut into 1/4 inch dice)
1/2 cup raisins

Instructions
Put a rack in the middle of the oven and preheat oven to 350 degrees. Butter and flour Bundt pan, knocking out extra flour.

Sift together flour, baking soda and salt into a bowl.

Whisk together oil, eggs, sugars, cinnamon, nutmeg, rum and vanilla in a large bowl until just combined. Fold in flour mixture until just combined, then fold in apples and raisins.

Spoon batter into pan. Bake until a wooden pick or skewer inserted in center of cake comes out clean, about 1 1/4 hours. Cool cake pan on a rack for 10 minutes, then turn out onto rack to cool completely.

Happy Friday!!

Wednesday, August 12, 2009

Today is a great day...

Today is a great day because...

...I'm eating a peanut butter & jelly sandwich, with homemade peanut butter and raspberry jam (which I guess makes it a peanut butter & jam sandwich)...

...I just got back from a yoga class and now I feel all loosey goosey...

...They are checking my references and I am in the final three. Glad to have made it this far...

...Even if I don't get the job I can be satisfied in knowing that I'm still employed and I love what I do...

...My husband is planning a themed opening for the residence hall we live in. The theme: "Hogwarts." Love that man!

...It's a little cloudy today, which has cooled off the entire city. Finally!...

...And finally, today is a great day because I have family and friends who love me just as I love them. And they should know that though I may not talk to them every day, week, month (heck, or even every year) I do and always will love them...